Big Sorry for those disappointed by my silence

Good news first; I ma back from the summer break, and that means one thing: More blogging...
On the same note i will be posting few pictures of my engagement party .
I cant promise to post my wive`s pictures as i had promised her not to do so. She is an old school kind of a person and does not trust the idea of being introduced to public domains :)
Bad news! there is tribal clashes going on in my village, it really saddens me. The strange thing is that these people are people with nothing, in other words poor people killing each other..

This was just an introduction ..see u soon with more blogs..

Jambo !

Here we go, we are back; updating the blog twice a day. I am supposed to be doing other stuff but hey a promise is a promise.
Whats happening? Yeah, its a food party in our place in Sollentuna, actually the outskirt of Sollentuna.I just woke up from my evevning nap. This is the life i really missed, waking up early, taking a walk in the beautiful parks of Sollentuna drive around and shop a bit, lunch, evening nap, chatting with my friend`s kids..midnight movies, more talks and then retire to bed....to be continued...

Back to the world! Charles Tailor gets 50 years in prison for aiding war crimes in Sierra Leone, kudos to justice. Imagine if all war criminals were taken here and faced the destiny of this monster. Bush, Blair and  former American leaders who declared war on stable countries. The sad part is the west established the so called International Justice Court with the purpose of dealing with war crimes, but the US has not agreed to this, so i hope everyone sees the irony here. This leaves a bad test in the mouth of those who think Charles tailor has been dealth with in accordance with justice..I say NO, Charles Tailor is a criminal, but the court is a joke. It is a court for the west and by the west...

The European championsship is here, scary scenes about racism is trending on the media..OH dear! where is the UEFA? well, UEFA might want to prove all those racists that we are all human, but i think this is a bad lesson fro anyone involved. They should have tried when we have  a black or an Asian  president in Europe at least, because racism is still ripe in Europe.

Back to Sweden, some morons wired up by some media groups, then sent them to mosques to get the opinion of `muslims`on women. In Sweden we had over 14000 cases of reported domestic violence against women (2003), over 40,000 cases of abortion, latest eating disorders deaths shows that there are 13 deaths in Sweden, at 7th position.US is  leading the chart with 214 deaths....
My question is, with this kind of statistics, I dont understand why people are concerned about what the imams say, don`t they instead focus on the bigger picture. As a muslim, i see this as a way to build a bad reputation against Islam.If one needs to learn about Islam, please refer to The koran!

Ok guys! (guys means both men and women in an american expresssion) ...

Good morning folks !

The sun is bright, making me struggle with the curtains to keep our the sun rays. The trees show signs of life, with their green saying branches. The birds are constantly tweeting from a tree adjacent to my window.
Life cant be better..Alhamdulillah..
Firtsly, sorry about my silence, it was all due to the sickening degree essays, which is over now. I promise to update you on at least weekly basis if not daily. With less than five days remaining untill i am off to Kenya, and 18 days remaining untill i a a married man, Believe you me, u are in for a summer full of events in this blog.
I will also be sending you pictures from Safari, Coastal beaches and of course every detail of the food and the people who cook it..

This is how the program looks like: Taking a road trip to Oslo, back on saturaday to attend a party  that is to be thrown by my friends here in Stockholm..Get back to Gevle on Sunday night and summarise the school business and also take the opportunity to bid farewell to my brothers and sisters in Gevle..
On tuesday, i defend my degree essay and comment on classmate`s essays., then take the flight on that day..

Back to my silence, apart from school, i had the opportunity to visit London, and my people there. It was a mix of pleasure and study. Someone was asking me how on earth could i combine all these stressful events, studies, wedding planning, trips e.t.c.....This is the reason: My life as a muslim facilitates easy planning, stress handling and belief in the fact that everything happens with the planning of the creator..Also, the purpose of life, which is recognising our creator worshipping him (something that many dont recognise) gives one a direction. Moreover, praying five times a day, dedicating a month to the poor, by fasting and showing empathy and being good to fellow humans combine to build me as a good person (i know i am a good person), if u dont think i am, its your fault :P

So, follow me and drop a comment if there is anything that u disagree or agree..But first enjoy these few pictures from My London trip....


Above: Taking a break from the husstles..I look like a junkie, don`t i?  Below: Posing with an olympic promoter....more to come, stay tuned :) 

Late night posts..

As much as i despise bloggers who always talk about themselves, tonight i will dedicate this post to myself..hope u wont mind ..there will be I, I and I...quite personal, but trying to make a point..its all about sharing experiences...


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It is exactly one month before i am back to Kenya. Excitement is setting in, i am almost shutting those thoughts from myinner- self. I dont want to think the thought of me reuniting with the mates, families, the beautiful environment and most importantly with the notion that i am soon done with the studies.
With opportunities knocking at my door already, the future looks brigh Alhamdulillah..Inshalah, a year from now i will be rounding up a master program then the next target if i am alive, is an arabic country.The latter raises eyebrows; you went to Kenya for ya practicals, came back with a big beard, stopped hanging around with the opposite sex and now heading to Arabland..wait a minute, is that not what extremist do before they bomb themselves in the air! ..mmm! this was a reaction of a friend..
Its sad that people have such a perception about a person like me who is changing for the better; Being a practising muslim improved every aspect of my life.. i am still improving, striving to be a better muslim and person. You aint cool with that, u dont deserve to be around me.
Already, i lost some people just because they could not handle my livestyle..they drunk and did all that are unacceptable in my faith..I am happy that i am no longer with them, i got real friends that are brothers to me Alhamdulillah..

Its 1 a.m and took a break from reading and writting. I am doing my usual reflections..i just realised that i have over 200 friends..my definition of friends is people who know your history and care about you...unlike in Sweden a person calls you a friend even when he or she barely knows you..This is putting a smile on my face..coz those who befriend with you in hurry are those who disappear in the shortest time possible..it happened to me by the way. But happy that they disapeared i must repeat..

Its the morning prayers in an hour and continue my beautiful reflection in the dreams..Then tomorrow will be a good day inshalah..meeting my supervisor and then start packing..

U see such an image in africa, waaw she is breast-feeding her child !
U see this in the Western-world, ooh thats how they give a head !


we are in a dangerous society, may Allah help us all !
Peace all !

Crazy world

Hello everyone out there who missed reading my posts; as usual i apologise for my deafening silence. As i warned you it was all about the degree project. Now it is almost over, i have some few pages remaining.
Next week will be another big week in my life; rounding up the 40 page essay; travelling to the UK for a visit to important people in my life..then 3 weeks later, a journey to Kenya. As i explained in earlier posts, i reward myself with something good whenever i achieve big things. Now that i have a degree in the bag, Few months in Kenya (Safari in the package) would be a perfect end to my long hard work in this scandinavian country...More on this will be posted on another occasion; dont worry i have all the time to post stuff this time..dont fail to follow me..i have big updates in place for you..maybe not next week but i two weeks time,...

Well, apart from updating u on my moves..i wanted to share my frustrations with you, ...Read the following scenario and pliz send me ya reactions..i am trying to make sense of how the future...It is something i read on some websites...


An old woman is on the floor with a bag next to her. She asks the passing school girls for any amount of cash, but the girl refuses with a middle finger. Her friends clearly don’t notice the situation, let alone care about it. The helpless woman just looks at her in desperate pain and shock as the little girl just smirks at her.

This picture breaks my heart. The senile woman is on the floor in beautiful, cultural garments, but asks for a mere donation. The girl in modern school clothing gives her a thoughtless and ignorant “fuck you.”

I don’t know where this picture was taken, but it depicts what our future has become: children disrespecting elders like they were vermin killed flat on the road. I’ve seen this here in Europe. Little kids on their cell phones undermining what their parents have to say, little kids cussing like there’s no tomorrow, little kids worrying about their looks rather than their family. It’s everywhere; culture and respect are both dying. It’s because of the influences that these kids can easily access: media, drugs, adultery. Our world is losing grasp of the future, and we can only watch as the next generation become total monsters

Need for distraction..

Right now its all about me, someone told me that if i have to succed in life i have to be selfish and focus on my target::I say BULLSHIT...Thats not the way mama raised me; it is this time when i really need my people, my friends and the haters as well :)

Anyway; i am halfway the study that i was doing in my final degree project. this of course makes me glad.But, the truth is i am far away from the touch line..i am prety much distracted by the thoughts that i am wedding in less than two months inshalah. I get great dreams during the nights, which is good for my fantasy but not for the work in hand.
Am sitting by a window, enjoying a good helicopter view of architect of the Edsberg buildings..nice bungaloes, not better than the one i am sitting in tho..for ya information, i am living with a friend on my stay in stockholm..she is a very sucessful carrier woman..she is adoring, isnt she?
My dream is smashing the degree project and taking a short trip to the UK..then pack and face Kenya..this is the only way i can keep my focus..Do this, u are going home soon..haha feels like a kid being enticed to finish the food if he or she has to go out with mummy later..
Wish me good luck guys..cheers..

Oh yeah..A swedish cultural minister was pictured eating a cake that was designed as an african cirumcised woman (i mean fgm)...honestly, she is just stupi..am not hurt..i have seen worser thing than that..in between she is blond lol

cool runnings !

Hello good people!

hope all is good with all u readers out there; apart from my seldomely updated posts of course;;which i again aplogoise for..
Before going into details about how life is doing me at the moment; i will first share my experience with friends.

As i spent almost halv of my life in sclassrooms and school environments, i believe that my experience with diferent students might be worth to share with you guys. I was reflecting on the diferent schools that i went to and the people i ment in my entire life. I realised that i have made over a thousand friends, most of them met in school environments in my entire life.
In Sweden, i met few, they are good people, and i really do love them. However, how people in sweden define friendship is diferent from how its defined in Africa. In Africa, friendship means, being ready to take bullet for someone,otherwise u are not a friend. there is nothing like good or bad friend. you are either a friend or not.
Whereas, after few meetings, someone calls u a friend, few weeks pass by, the person cant even show support when u are struggling with minor crisis. This "friend" can even diss your calls and never call back. Actually, my grandpa advised me on this; he said the worst enemy is the one that poses as a friend and on the other hand he/she is not sincere in hi/her commitment to you. I wish i had listened to Grandpa, Now i am getting defensive when it comes to people around here. The fake people are getting better in their game and that makes life harder. they are taking their game to the next level; so it is all about watching your backs.

That was my friendship piece of advice to you good people out there. If u find a good friend stick to them.
BACK TO ME: I just applied for my masters in Malmö, the third biggest city in Sweden; If i get admission, it is a very big step to my dream profession; international social worker, aid worker,political analyst, social consultant..the options are many..i need ya prayers guys!
Now, i am packing my stuff, taking the train to stockholm to meet my Degree-project supervisor. It will be a good weekend inshalah..The aim is to write 10 pages over the weekend with the overall target being 40 pages..wish me good luck !
I will get back to you when i come a bit further with the writting. At the moment, my world is all about reading and writting, and of course thinking about my loved ones..

did u know that a lion gives the strongest fight in the last 15 minutes of his life! It is then a lion is in the sharpest, most agressive and focused state...yes, u can compare me to a lion hehe cheers guys ..