måndag 21 november 2011

Good morning !

Hi guys! i am sory for keeping u waiting ! many of u have showed the desire to join me on this blog but because of the language setting of the blog u are unable to join up; i am working on changing the setting, hope it works out..otherwise keep tuned on !
rains have caused havoc in Nairobi hence nasty smell in ghetto areas and of course disrupted transport and sitima in the town...i might travel to a warmer mombasa this weekend inshalah, am not decided yet.
MORE UPDATES !
 Amid the heavy downpours in Nairobi, there were big things that was going on with my life! I was courting this girl for sometimes, and i was really fascinated by how the somali culture sees this "dating" thing. to start with, i was blessed with a good muslim girl whose family is famous for the well-raising of their kids.
so, in the islamic culture, one is not allowed to treat women the way one wants, there is actually a process thats followed and this is the way it looks like,,
   1. once u like each other, u are refered to the second stage
   2..involve family members, once both families like the idea of you two having an affair,.then ..
   3. council of elders from the guys family goes to the girls family to file a request for the girl-
   4.then if the meeting goes well..the guy and the girl are officially in a relationship hence discussing marriage affairs and other serious stuff !

Now, i just finished all the stages, i am now talking wedding conditions with the family..and hopefully we can come into agreements.
so, if u guys were wondering why i was lost, its because of the fact that i was tied up with this interesting process.
I am glad to share this with u, i hope u are all able to be involved with this big process in one way or the other.
I really fancy having all the friends (especially those in the diaspora;yuske) in Nairobi to witness this big moment :)
at the moment, i need ya dua`s inshalah !

Inga kommentarer:

Skicka en kommentar