Need for distraction..

Right now its all about me, someone told me that if i have to succed in life i have to be selfish and focus on my target::I say BULLSHIT...Thats not the way mama raised me; it is this time when i really need my people, my friends and the haters as well :)

Anyway; i am halfway the study that i was doing in my final degree project. this of course makes me glad.But, the truth is i am far away from the touch line..i am prety much distracted by the thoughts that i am wedding in less than two months inshalah. I get great dreams during the nights, which is good for my fantasy but not for the work in hand.
Am sitting by a window, enjoying a good helicopter view of architect of the Edsberg buildings..nice bungaloes, not better than the one i am sitting in tho..for ya information, i am living with a friend on my stay in stockholm..she is a very sucessful carrier woman..she is adoring, isnt she?
My dream is smashing the degree project and taking a short trip to the UK..then pack and face Kenya..this is the only way i can keep my focus..Do this, u are going home soon..haha feels like a kid being enticed to finish the food if he or she has to go out with mummy later..
Wish me good luck guys..cheers..

Oh yeah..A swedish cultural minister was pictured eating a cake that was designed as an african cirumcised woman (i mean fgm)...honestly, she is just stupi..am not hurt..i have seen worser thing than that..in between she is blond lol

cool runnings !

Hello good people!

hope all is good with all u readers out there; apart from my seldomely updated posts of course;;which i again aplogoise for..
Before going into details about how life is doing me at the moment; i will first share my experience with friends.

As i spent almost halv of my life in sclassrooms and school environments, i believe that my experience with diferent students might be worth to share with you guys. I was reflecting on the diferent schools that i went to and the people i ment in my entire life. I realised that i have made over a thousand friends, most of them met in school environments in my entire life.
In Sweden, i met few, they are good people, and i really do love them. However, how people in sweden define friendship is diferent from how its defined in Africa. In Africa, friendship means, being ready to take bullet for someone,otherwise u are not a friend. there is nothing like good or bad friend. you are either a friend or not.
Whereas, after few meetings, someone calls u a friend, few weeks pass by, the person cant even show support when u are struggling with minor crisis. This "friend" can even diss your calls and never call back. Actually, my grandpa advised me on this; he said the worst enemy is the one that poses as a friend and on the other hand he/she is not sincere in hi/her commitment to you. I wish i had listened to Grandpa, Now i am getting defensive when it comes to people around here. The fake people are getting better in their game and that makes life harder. they are taking their game to the next level; so it is all about watching your backs.

That was my friendship piece of advice to you good people out there. If u find a good friend stick to them.
BACK TO ME: I just applied for my masters in Malmö, the third biggest city in Sweden; If i get admission, it is a very big step to my dream profession; international social worker, aid worker,political analyst, social consultant..the options are many..i need ya prayers guys!
Now, i am packing my stuff, taking the train to stockholm to meet my Degree-project supervisor. It will be a good weekend inshalah..The aim is to write 10 pages over the weekend with the overall target being 40 pages..wish me good luck !
I will get back to you when i come a bit further with the writting. At the moment, my world is all about reading and writting, and of course thinking about my loved ones..

did u know that a lion gives the strongest fight in the last 15 minutes of his life! It is then a lion is in the sharpest, most agressive and focused state...yes, u can compare me to a lion hehe cheers guys ..

Squirky bum time !

This is a phrase associated with the sound that comes from the seats of nervous soccer fans at the end of matches. Sir Alex ferguson, the coach of manchester united, introduced the term to the english media in 2003 when he said, its squirky bum time !
Now, with me  and everyone who cares for me its squirky but time, am soon out to face the future if i am alive then (inshalah)..thats why u dont see my new posts these days! sory about that..

I ask for your prayers and patience untill the day am done with this shit; am taking a month out from the blog..i will try to post stuff now and then..

take care..lovee

Good evening !

Difficulty moments in the sense that the work on the degree project  is showing minimum progress. In such times, one needs to spend time with people who can make u have a lough. In this post i wanted to share the moments i had with an older friend; i mean old as in age. 

He gave me a story about a bush man who was asked the question: sugar and date, which tests sweeter, the bushman goes, do u mean the immediate test that comes into your senses as you put them in the mouth or, the test that remains later on? the questioner was puzzled as this was a question he never expected, then the bush man, figuring out that the man was lost in translation, he continued, he said; both are sweet, but sugar is just good if u only need to test and go while date is sweet if u want to experience a longer test in the mouth. He continues, sugar makes u sick after few licks but dates` sweetness lasts longer..

The moral lesson of the story!

....................have u realised that when u meet people, u like some of them on the first eye sight, others take time to click with them and others never get to ya attention at all? well, those who you like them at the first sight, be careful, they are like sugar. while those who never come to ya radar, dont wory, u are maybe lucky not to learn about them. on the other hand, those who take time to like them are always better than those u click with them on first sight; these are the dates type..

myself, i have a first hand experience with this.When we first started uni, there were some people whom i was I was attracted to as friends from the first meeting, not to realise that like sugar, i feel like vomiting after having too much dose of them.

After 3 years, those that had no place in my heart then came to be sweeter than the rest, like dates i cant get enough..I learnt that people are not what they try to be, but what they are ! take time to know the real them before u make a decision...

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This does not mean that i hate anyone, we dont hate sugar,its not edible, but it serves other purposes like tea, coffee sweetener; i mean if they cant play the right purpose, they are still human and who knows they can one day come in hand..

............DID U KNOW THAT:  A FEMALE PRAYING MANTIS CHOPS THE MALE`S HEAD OFF AFTER HAVING SEX ?